The Sikh Anand Karaj
(Ceremony of Bliss) is conducted in the
Gurdwara (Sikh temple). The Baraat arrives
at the Gurdwara with the groom traditionally
on horseback along with a young boy. The
close family and friends from the bride
and groom’s side meet to perform
the Ardaas (Sikh Prayer). This is followed
by the Milni ceremony where members of
both sides meet and exchange hugs, garlands
and well wishes.
All guests then share tea and breakfast
before assembling inside the main hall
of the Gurdwara. As guests enter, Ragis
sing hymns from the Sri Guru Granth Sahib
(Sikh Holy Scripture). Men and woman sit
on opposite sides of the Gurdwara hall,
equal distance from the Ragis and the
Sri Guru Granth Sahib. After all guests
have been seated, the bride enters followed
by close friends and family members. The
bride and groom are then seated in front
of the Sri Guru Granth Sahib.
The ceremony officially begins with the
Granthi (Sikh priest) asking the couple,
as well as their parents, to stand up
for Ardaas. This family Ardaas indicates
the public consent of the marriage taking
place. Out of respect, every time the
bride and groom stand up or sit down during
the ceremony, they bow down to Sri Guru
Granth Sahib by touching their foreheads
to the ground.
One end of the scarf that is worn on
the groom’s shoulder is placed in
the bride’s hand by her father,
signifying that she is now leaving his
care to join her husband’s. This
is called the Palla ceremony.
The Granthi now reads the Lavan hymn
of Guru Ram Das, which is composed of
four stanzas. The four stanzas of the
hymn describe the progression of love
between a husband and wife, which is analogous
to that between the soul (the wife) and
God (the husband). After reciting the
stanza, the groom followed by the bride
holding the end of the scarf, walk around
Sri Guru Granth Sahib in a clockwise direction
while the Ragis sing out the recited Laava
stanza. After each round, the couple sits
down and listens while the Granthi reads
the next stanza. The couple may also choose
to stand between stanzas, as per the Rehat
Maryada. The Ragis then sing the stanza,
while the couple completes another walk
around Sri Guru Granth Sahib. This process
is repeated a total of four times.
After the Laavan, the Anand hymn by Guru
Amar Das is recited, and is followed by
lectures and Kirtan (singing of Sikh hymns).
The entire congregation stands as the
religious ceremony is formally concluded
by the final Ardaas of the marriage. After
this, Sri Guru Granth Sahib is opened
to a random page and the hymn is read
out as the day’s order by the Guru
for the occasion (Hukamnama). Karah Prashad,
the ceremonial sacramental pudding, is
then distributed to everyone to mark the
formal conclusion of the ceremony.
Following the ceremony, everyone walks
out of the Gurdwara hall and is seated
together and served Langar (a community
meal).